"I am also highly logic-driven and they (Verrill & Charlene) are able to share emotional things with me in logical ways..."
Verrill & Charlene offered prospectives I never considered before. They identified my blindspots and helped me understand my options. I am also highly logic driven and they are able to share emotional things with me in logical ways so it worked really well for me. They are really wonderful mentors.
- A.L., male, 36
"It has been a wonderful experience learning from Verrill & Charlene."
It was an awesome experience!
It has been a wonderful experience learning from Verrill & Charlene.
I learnt a lot from their wealth of knowledge and experience. I also learnt more about myself and to be focused in taking action to finding the right soulmate!
- D.S., male, 41
"Having Verrill & Charlene as my coaches really benefitted me personally."
Having Verrill & Charlene as my coaches really benefited me personally. Their course materials and homework allows me to reflect on myself as a person and what I want to see change in my dating life towards marriage & my own growth. Their patience and sharing and their testimony of their own love story gives me hope that my soulmate do exist. Also, they bring clarity as to why having a soulmate list and not putting myself out there to just date anyone is important.
- H.S., female, 39
"I have procrastinated about finding life partners for years, and if not for the coaching sessions, I probably will continue the procrastination."
Before the coaching session, the thought of the process in finding a life partner was a bit daunting, and generally whenever I think of it, it gives off a bit of a stressful and cumbersome vibe.
I have procrastinated about finding life partners for years, and if not for the coaching sessions I probably will continue the procrastination.
After coaching started, I finally set aside time for it despite being in a busy season of my life I started going for dates.
- Stella Y., female, 37
".. Finding out who I am or whether I am good enough was one of the bigger issues I faced."
For the longest time I only had a general idea or what are some values i am going for in my life partner and also thought why my dates never gone beyond once. Have been looking for my life partner for a more than 10 years but gotten my heart hurt instead. My identity of finding out who I am or whether i am good enough was one of the bigger issue that I faced.
Working with Verrill & Charlene gives me more confidence of knowing who I am inside & out and that my soulmate exist because he is created for me and me for him. Knowing that I am good enough and holding on to the thought of I am good enough helps me to have a different perspective of who I am as a person and the authenticity I carry when I date or meet my soulmate.
- H.T., female, 39
"I now have much better clarity on how to deal with my emotional wounds"
Before meeting Verrill & Charlene, I had no structured or written action plans for dating nor formally addressed some of my baggages from past relationships. I also had no idea if the direction I am taking is right or not and did not have a mentor to guide and encourage me.
With their guidance I now have much better clarity on how to deal with my emotional wounds, how to prioritize the traits I am looking for and the practical steps I should take to find my soulmate.
- N.L., male, 36
It’s been amazing working with Verrill & Charlene. They created a safe space and made me comfortable to share. It was easy and light.
They made me think deeper in what I have gone through since I was young. The deepest thoughts that only I am aware of, but kept shoving down and hiding it in the closet.
Through their coaching, it made me realised that I had to relook at my old wounds and take on a healing journey - Through writing down my thoughts about my past, it made me realised a pattern that I needed to break in order to go further in my future relationship.
Forgiving my mum was the biggest journey that I had to take on to let go and love myself more.
I became more confident of myself, knowing that I have so much in me. After I have forgiven my mum, I see relationships in a different perspective – I am now hopeful for what’s in store in my next relationship.
You would never have to worry about going through this journey alone. With each encouragement and motivation they lavish on you, only makes you want to really do this and do them proud.
- Sam L., female, 33
"Even after working in the Human Resources domain for close to 15 years, people baffle me and I found them extremely difficult to understand and navigate."
I took the leap of faith in my first personal development coaching journey with Verrill & Charlene to sort out the “mess” I had in the area of my relationships with people.
Even after working in the Human Resources domain for close to 15 years, people baffle me and I found them extremely difficult to understand and navigate. This spills over to my personal relationships with family, friends, as well as dating.
After many years of banging my head (and heart) against brick walls, crying myself rivers and a colourful destruction path behind me, I decided to give myself an ultimatum and work on me in a bid to elevate myself - personally (to feel good as a rounded person), professionally (in dealing with others and management), as well as relationally (how I relate to all around us, kin, friends and acquaintances).
Instead of muddling through the mountains of unfiltered emotions akin to finding a needle in a haystack, having Verrill & Charlene pointing out blind spots, egging you to go deep, and “peel your onion”, is a much welcomed intervention.
In addition, they provided practical tools for further introspection, which are useful aids for emotional healing and a pathway to living your authentic truth. Investing in yourself is always the best money spent. There is no one else more worthy to lavish this finite resource on than you - the results are manifold, saving both time and emotional anguish.
If you believe in living a free life, being your authentic self, bringing your A-game to every situation in life, I implore you to give the coaching by Verrill & Charlene a go. They are an incredibly fun bunch and most interesting couple I’ve met. Welcome to a journey of self-discovery that you’ll not regret!
- S.H., female, 37
"I was secretly bashing my fiancé for a mistake he did"
Before my coaching with Verrill & Charlene, I was secretly bashing my fiance for a mistake he did. Even though we reconciled, I was trying to always make him pay for his mistake, by being angry with him and trying to make him compensate by forcing him to be nicer to me.
We have been together for 5 years, and I felt like my relationship was like a pure, clear and clean piece of paper, except for this one mark on the paper due to the mistake.
After the whole incident, although things got better and we were working towards a better future, there was still something that was holding me back in the inner corners of my heart.
I felt hurt, abandoned, and confused – to the point of no longer knowing what’s right or what’s wrong.
I kept asking myself “What would have happened if I just walked away instead of staying on.”
I was subconsciously trying to persuade myself to let it go, to get over it but it didn’t work. I thought that I will have to live with it for the rest of my life. Felt like my whole life was ruined because of this incident.
After my coaching with Verrill & Charlene, it felt like it was a load off my heart – I was not even holding a grudge.
I was able to just move on happily and live life happily with my fiance now.
I was able to “take the eraser and erase the mark off our clean sheet of paper”. I forgave my fiancé and moved on.
The mistake doesn’t even make me sad anymore because I really let it go. My sibling even commented “wah like magic”.
I was at peace.
Our relationship is now easier, happier, nicer and simpler.
Even now when I talk about the incident, I don’t even cry anymore.
The coaching with Verrill and Charlene was definitely the key to moving on.
- May, female, 31
"We often clashed and our arguments were heated and condescending... As a result, I moved out..."
Before my coaching with Verrill & Charlene, I was constantly having conflicts with my husband in terms of values and daily decision making.
We often clashed and our arguments were heated and condescending with each other. As a result, I moved out and back to my parents' place.
After working with Verrill & Charlene, I learnt tools of how to work through these conflicts with my husband.
I got that my husband and I have different mode of operations and that’s why we have responded differently to same things.
I have since moved back in with my husband.
- Y.S., female, 42
" I now feel that working things out is going to be a lot easier, because we understand each other and 'can speak the same language'."
Before doing the assessment, I would think of different ways to try and work things out with Alicia because I thought that she might not understand or misunderstand.
After the assessment, I found out that Alicia and myself are very similar.
We have the same perspectives on a lot of things – like finances and expectations. I now feel that working things out is going to be a lot easier, because we understand each other and “can speak the same language”.
I feel like communicating with Alicia now requires less work and less thinking.
- Joshua C, male, 33
"Doing this will help us in our marriage because.. (we) understand our conflict management style better."
While going through the report, Verrill and Charlene covered questions that we don’t usually talk about or won’t really think that it would matter much, but it turns out that it should be something that we should be talking about.
Before doing the report, I feel like me and Joshua knows each other well (70%). After doing the report, we now know each other better (80%). Now I know how to support each other and become better together. I now know how to deal with fights and not avoid it. I also know myself and Joshua better, so we can build a better relationship together.
Doing this will help us in our marriage because we know each other better and understand our conflict management style better. I am able to understand more of Joshua’s language, and I would be able to interpret his actions or words less wrongly. After all, girls and guys think differently.
We are better ready for our next stage of life. :)
- Alicia, female, 31