For marriages that aren't broken.
Finally start resolving the one issue your marriage keeps getting stuck on, in 8 weeks.
Even if your spouse isn’t ready yet.
You still love the person you married. You’re just done wondering whether this is how it’s going to be for the next decade.
From Roommates to Us™ is an eight-week marriage coaching programme for the spouse who is ready to begin first.
We take one real unresolved issue, identify the repeating pattern keeping it stuck, and help you start moving it.
As the issue begins to move, there’s more room to Feel Close Again.
November Cohort · 8 spouse spots ·
Wednesdays · 4 Nov-23 Dec 2026 · 7:30-9:00 pm SGT ·
For marriages that aren't broken.
Finally start resolving the one issue your marriage keeps getting stuck on, in 8 weeks.
Even if your spouse
isn’t ready yet.
You still love the person you married. You’re just done wondering whether this is how it’s going to be for the next decade.
From Roommates to Us™ is an eight-week marriage coaching programme for the spouse who is ready to begin first.
We take one real unresolved issue, identify the repeating pattern keeping it stuck and help you start moving it.
As the issue begins to move, there’s more room to Feel Close Again.
November Cohort · 8 spouse spots ·
Wednesdays · 4 Nov-23 Dec 2026 ·
7:30-9:00 pm SGT ·
Married
since 2013
220 married Singaporeans surveyed
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Married
since 2013
220 married
Singaporeans surveyed
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Certified:
THE ISSUE THAT KEEPS COMING BACK
You probably already know what the issue is.
For most marriages, the big issues aren’t mysterious.
Maybe it’s parenting. One of you thinks the children need more structure while the other thinks everyone needs to relax. You disagree about screens, discipline, school, sleep, grandparents or the thousand small decisions that reveal how differently two people can think.
Children don’t create the gap between two spouses, but parenting can expose very quickly where the two of you aren’t aligned.
Maybe it’s money. How much should you save, spend, invest or give? What counts as responsible?
Maybe it’s sex and intimacy. One person wants more connection while the other feels tired, pressured, rejected or misunderstood.
Or maybe it’s in-laws. Whose family gets priority? Where do the boundaries sit, and what happens when keeping everybody happy puts the two of you on opposite sides?
Your issue may be something else entirely.
But when it comes up, you probably already know roughly how the conversation is going to go.
You raise something because it matters to you. Your spouse hears something slightly different from what you meant, so you explain. They become defensive, you feel misunderstood and you explain even more.
Or maybe they go quiet, and you find yourself pushing because you don’t want another important thing left unresolved.
Eventually somebody gets tired and the conversation stops.
Then life carries on.
There’s work, children, ageing parents, school schedules, tuition, family commitments and all the ordinary things that keep life moving.
So you tell yourself you’ll deal with it properly when life settles down.
Except life rarely settles down.
And somehow “we’ll deal with it later” becomes a few months, then a few years.
By then, it isn’t only the original issue sitting between you anymore.
There are the conversations that went nowhere, the things you stopped saying and the conclusions you’ve quietly started making about each other.
And after enough conversations that go nowhere, something else can start happening too.
You slowly stop believing this part of the marriage will ever change.
So you bring it up less. Expect less. Tolerate more.
The love may still be there. Hope is what starts wearing down.
And if time alone was going to resolve it, it probably would have by now.
THE PATTERN UNDER THE ISSUE
The issue is what you notice. The pattern is what keeps it stuck.
Say the issue is your spouse’s parents. You raise something that bothered you, your spouse hears criticism of their family and becomes defensive. You feel dismissed, so you push harder. They pull away.
Nothing really gets resolved.
The next time the subject comes up, both of you are already bringing the last conversation into the new one.
So yes, the issue is the in-laws. But the way the two of you keep getting stuck around the issue may be part of why it has stayed unresolved for so long.
The same thing can happen with parenting, money, intimacy or anything else that matters.
You can spend years talking about the right topic and still get nowhere if every conversation keeps following the same pattern.
More conversation by itself won’t fix that; something in the pattern has to change.
But how can one person change a two-person pattern?
Think about two cars trying to merge into the same lane. If both drivers keep approaching at the same speed, at the same time, making the same moves, they keep arriving at the same collision point.
Neither driver controls the other. But one of them can change what happens next. Slow down. Speed up. Leave a gap. Take a different position.
The moment one driver changes their move, the other driver is no longer responding to exactly the same situation.
Marriage patterns work in much the same way.
You may not be able to control what your spouse does next. But you can stop making the same move that keeps bringing both of you back to the same collision point.
That is why one willing spouse can begin.
That’s why From Roommates to Us™ begins with:
One unresolved issue. One repeating pattern.
We choose something concrete, recurring and likely to come up during the eight weeks, something where the spouse in the programme has a genuine point of influence. That issue becomes the real-life place where you practise doing something different.
INTRODUCING THE MAP™ · MARRIAGE ALIGNMENT PROCESS
A practical way to stop ending up in the same place.
When the same issue keeps coming back, you probably don’t need more marriage information.
You need a practical way to recognise what is happening, see where you still have a point of choice and know what to do differently when the issue appears again.
That’s what The MAP™ is designed to help you do. And at the centre of the process is the reason any of this matters:
Feel Close Again.
The MAP™ takes you through three arcs:
Calm Under Pressure
When you’re already tired or carrying too much, ordinary moments become much more loaded. We help you recognise when pressure is shaping your reaction so you still have a choice about what happens next.
Navigate Loaded Conversations
When the same conversation has gone badly enough times, you start hesitating before you even begin. We help you raise important things more cleanly and make it easier for both people to stay in the conversation long enough to understand what actually needs resolving.
Same Side Again
Parenting, money, home, work and both families create endless shared decisions. We help you get clearer about ownership, expectations and what genuinely needs both of you, so marriage feels less like two separate lives and more like being on the same side again
HOW IT WORKS
What your eight weeks actually look like.
We begin with one real issue from your marriage.
Together, we map the repeating pattern around it, get clear on where things are now and define what meaningful movement would look like by the end of the eight weeks.
Early in the programme, you’ll have a private PIN Session™ with Verrill.
Pinpoint the issue. Identify the pattern. Next move: choose what you can actually influence.
From there, you’ll work through the six parts of The MAP™: Restore Your Margin, Real Time Regulation, Create Emotional Safety, Talk Without Tension, Build Real Partnership and Align Shared Standards.
Each week, you apply what you’re learning to the issue you’re actually dealing with at home.
Between sessions, you’ll complete a short Marriage Issue Check-In (MIC™) so you can see what actually happened: what moved, what stayed stuck and what needs attention next.
At the midpoint, we review what is changing and where we need to adjust.
You’ll leave with your Protect the Marriage™ (PTM™) 30-Day Plan, a simple plan for protecting the progress you’ve made and keeping the issue moving after the programme ends.
After eight weeks, you shouldn’t be left thinking, That was interesting.
You should be able to see what changed.
From the people We've walked with
What can change when one spouse begins first
Names and identifying details have been changed to protect privacy.
Marriage 01
WHEN ONLY ONE SPOUSE WAS READY TO BEGIN
She had already moved out and was staying with her mother.
Her husband never attended a session.
Before our work together ended, she had moved back home.
"I came swimming in dark waters.
I left seeing that my marriage could be loved to the brim."
READ MORE
She and her husband had been clashing over ordinary, everyday decisions, and the way they spoke to each other had begun to make both of them feel small.
As she worked with us, she began to see that two people can approach things very differently without either spouse automatically being wrong.
She became clearer about what was hers to own, what wasn’t hers to carry, and what she could begin changing without waiting for him to go first.
She didn’t have to wait for both of them to become ready on the same day.
She began with what was within her control.
Marriage 02
WHEN YOUR SPOUSE IS THE ONE WHO NEEDS TO CHANGE
She was exhausted and carrying too much at home while her husband still seemed to have room for himself
From where she stood, the imbalance was real.
After a few conversations that finally landed, he began taking on more at home and encouraging her to take time off for herself.
"I have time off for myself, without planning what to do for the day.
I definitely feel so much better now."
READ MORE
She had been carrying a great deal at home, and from where she stood, the problem seemed obvious.
What shifted wasn’t about convincing her that the imbalance didn’t matter or asking her to become more tolerant of it.
She became clearer about what she was carrying, what belonged to her, and what she could change in the way she was approaching the situation.
As she changed what she was doing, the conversations between them began to change too.
Marriage 03
WHEN BEGINNING FIRST FELT UNFAIR
She was carrying deep hurt from past choices her husband had made.
What he had done was still his to own.
Her taking the first step didn’t change that.
“It felt like it was a load off my heart.
Our relationship is now easier, happier, nicer and simpler.”
READ MORE
She had spent a long time trying to understand what had happened and why, while being the one left carrying the hurt.
Our work wasn’t about excusing what happened or asking her to pretend it no longer mattered.
It was about helping her work through what she was carrying, so the hurt didn’t have to keep taking up the same amount of space in her life and marriage.
Over time, something began to lift.
She couldn’t change what had happened. But she could stop carrying it in the same way.
Three different marriages.
Three different issues.
The same possibility: one spouse can begin.
When one person changes the part of the pattern they can influence, the issue can begin to move.
This issue doesn’t have to follow you into the next decade.
We've been there too
We were wildly in love. Within our first month of marriage, the word divorce had already come up.
That Saturday, my grandmother was celebrating her 八十大寿. She was the eldest in her generation, so the whole family came. Granduncles, grandaunties, uncles, aunties, cousins. Around 120 people in one room.
That morning, I had asked Charlene, “Would you be my girl?” She said yes.
So on Day One of our relationship, I walked her into this giant family gathering and introduced her to everyone as my girlfriend.
The next day, we went to Ion Orchard and looked at wedding rings.
Then on Monday, I found myself stuck with one incessant thought: Do I want to spend the rest of my life with her?
The answer was yes.
So, I asked her, “Would you marry me?” She said yes.
Girlfriend on Saturday.
Fiancée on Monday.
By January 2013, we were married in front of 600 people, surrounded by the people we loved and genuinely believing we had found our person.
Then Chinese New Year arrived.
We hadn’t stopped loving each other. We hadn’t suddenly discovered we’d married the wrong person.
We had simply taken two completely different family worlds, put them together and discovered very quickly that love alone didn’t tell us how to make them fit.
My dad has eight siblings. My mum has six. Chinese New Year in my world meant starting early, finishing close to midnight and travelling around Singapore with twenty to thirty relatives for both days. As a child, I loved it. It was noisy, tiring, chaotic and fun. To me, that was simply what Chinese New Year was.
Charlene is an only child. Her family is small. Chinese New Year for her might mean two or three houses in a day, with enough time to sit down, talk and breathe.
We could already see that our first Chinese New Year might be difficult, so like two newly married Singaporeans, we made a plan.
Then Chinese New Year actually happened.
There were parents with expectations, relatives with opinions, different traditions and an impossible number of decisions about where to go, how long to stay and whose family needed what.
By the end of Day One, both of us were exhausted, crying and the word divorce came up. That really frightened us.
The word divorce didn’t come up because we wanted out or because we had stopped loving each other. We were wildly in love.
It came up because, in that moment, the problem felt so painful and so impossible to solve that we couldn’t imagine living through the same thing year after year for the rest of our lives.
We loved each other. We just couldn’t see a way through.
We had no idea how we were going to fix it. But we knew we were going to.
We could have avoided the whole thing. Book a trip every Chinese New Year, disappear for a few days and come home when it was over.
But that wasn’t what we wanted. We still wanted our families. We still wanted the traditions that mattered to us.
We wanted to figure out how to win at this Chinese New Year game without our marriage being the thing that we lost.
The whole thing felt too big to solve at once. There were too many people, expectations and decisions tangled together.
But there were things we could solve so that was where we started.
We worked out one decision, then another. Which houses really mattered? How much time did we want to spend with each family? Which traditions did we genuinely want to keep? What were we doing because it mattered to us, and what were we doing simply because somebody else expected it?
Underneath more and more of those decisions, we began answering a much bigger question:
Now that we’re married, who exactly is our first family?
Once we understood that our marriage had become our first family, it gave us a place to stand.
Our parents still mattered. Our relatives still mattered. Our traditions still mattered. But our marriage could no longer be organised around keeping our parents, aunties, uncles and extended family happy.
That didn’t magically fix Chinese New Year.
The second year was still difficult. So was the third. The fourth was easier.
But each year, there was less left to fight about.
A decision that had been painful the year before had already been made. A boundary had already been worked out. A tradition had already been agreed on.
We weren’t trying to conquer one giant “Chinese New Year problem.”
We were resolving what we could resolve, one piece at a time.
Then the fifth Chinese New Year arrived.
The relatives still had opinions. One auntie was still saying, “Wah, so long since you come my house to bai nian.” Our parents still had opinions. Chinese New Year itself had not suddenly become simple.
But Charlene and I realised we weren’t crying anymore.
There wasn’t another enormous post-CNY conversation waiting for us. There wasn’t another year of “Okay, next year we try doing this instead.”
We didn’t become better at surviving Chinese New Year.
We stopped having a Chinese New Year problem.
That experience left us with a conviction we still carry today:
Any issue can be resolved.
Chinese New Year had been the biggest, scariest and most painful recurring problem in our marriage. For years, it brought both of us to tears. There were so many people, expectations and decisions tangled together that, at the beginning, we genuinely couldn’t see how we were ever going to make it work.
And then we did.
Something that had once felt almost impossible was no longer a problem.
After that, everything else felt so much more solvable.
Not because every problem that came later was small. Some of them weren’t.
But we had already experienced what it was like to take something enormous, complicated and painful, work through it piece by piece, and eventually reach the other side.
So our starting assumption changed.
We stopped asking, “Can this be resolved?” and started asking, “How are we going to resolve it?”
what changed after that
New problems still came. They just stopped becoming old fights.
So when new problems came – moving house, work, pregnancy, parenting – we dealt with them while they were still current.
We stopped letting things pile up.
And one day, we realised something that still feels quite extraordinary to us:
We weren’t carrying old fights anymore.
Sometimes resolution meant making a decision. Sometimes it meant agreeing on a boundary or a shared standard. Sometimes we didn’t know the final answer yet, so we agreed on something new to test and when we would come back to review it.
An issue could still be open without being stuck.
Over time, we reached a point where we realised we didn’t really have old stuck issues anymore.
That didn’t mean every small decision in our lives was perfectly aligned. There were always details we saw differently, lower-priority things we hadn’t dealt with yet, or things we were still testing.
The difference was that very little was simply sitting there between us with nowhere to go.
That became normal enough that a good friend who had known us since before we were married would occasionally ask: “You both don’t fight one ah?”
We would laugh because of course we argued. How is it possible to live and work with someone and have zero differences in opinion?
It’s just that our arguments had become much shorter. We could disagree, figure out what was actually going on, decide what needed resolving or testing, and move.
Very little lingered for long.
Then life changed again. About three years ago, we moved back in with family. Suddenly there were in-law dynamics to navigate, helpers to manage, and then Judah came along and turned two people into parents. At the same time, both of us had less bandwidth than before.
New issues appeared because the life around our marriage had changed. But this time, we already knew what to do with them.
We worked through them too.
Today, there are still things we’re working on. Some smaller decisions aren’t fully aligned yet. Some things are still being tested.
But very little between us is stuck.
New problems will keep coming because life keeps changing.
They just don’t have to become old fights.
And that matters for closeness too.
When I’m angry with Charlene, I don’t particularly feel like holding her hand or kissing her. That seems fairly normal to me.
But once we’ve genuinely worked through what was sitting between us, it doesn’t become another unfinished thing we carry forward.
When there’s less sitting between us, reaching for each other becomes easier again.
Sometimes closeness doesn’t need more things added to your marriage.
Sometimes you need to start removing what has been left unresolved between you.
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BEYOND THE TWO OF YOU
Stronger marriages build stronger families. Stronger families raise stronger generations.
We care deeply about parenting. But in our world, marriage comes before parenting.
Not because children matter less. Precisely because they matter so much.
Years ago, when we were still coaching singles and people preparing for marriage, we kept hearing versions of the same sentence:
“I don’t want the marriage that my parents have.”
They weren’t saying their parents were terrible people. Many of them had grown up in families where Dad and Mum were still together.
They were simply remembering what they had watched growing up and thinking, There has to be a better way.
That stayed with us.
Because children aren’t only shaped by how we parent them. They’re also watching the marriage their parents are building.
They notice how Dad and Mum speak when they disagree. Whether difficult things get talked about or avoided. Whether affection survives ordinary life. Whether old hurts are carried for years, or two people know how to repair and find their way back to the same side.
Nobody has to sit them down and announce, “This is what marriage looks like.”
They’re already watching.
That became even more personal for us when Judah came along.
We had waited 10 years for him.
And when someone is that precious to you, you start thinking very hard about what you actually want to give them.
Of course we care about his education, health, opportunities and future.
But one day, he is going to build a marriage of his own.
He will bring into that marriage everything he has learned about love, conflict, closeness, repair and partnership from watching us.
And whoever he marries will bring a family history of her own.
We cannot control the marriage template that future spouse will bring.
But we can influence the one our child carries with them.
Our children don’t need to grow up watching a perfect marriage. There is no such thing.
But they can grow up seeing two imperfect people who disagree, get tired and misunderstand each other, yet still know how to resolve what sits between them and keep choosing each other.
Every pattern we resolve is one less pattern our children have to inherit as normal.
We believe one of the greatest legacies parents can leave their children is a marriage worth learning from.
What if some of the patterns we had to unlearn never become theirs to begin with?
TWO WAYS TO BEGIN
Choose the level of support that fits you.
Core
For the spouse who wants the complete eight-week programme, a personalised starting point and live coaching inside a small, private group.-
The full eight-week From Roommates to Us™ programme
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Your private PIN Session™ with Verrill
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Eight weekly 90-minute live sessions
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Your Weekly Marriage Issue Check-In (MIC™)
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A midpoint review
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Weekday WhatsApp support between sessions
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Graduation & Your Protect the Marriage™ 30-day plan
Private Support
For the spouse who wants the full programme with additional private space and closer support while working through the issue one-to-one.-
You’ll receive everything in Core, plus:
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Four private 1:1 sessions with Verrill
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7-day WhatsApp support between sessions
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Replies within 24 hours.
AN HONEST QUESTION
"S$2,000? For marriage?"
We understand why that can feel unusual.
Most of us already know how to spend money on the life around our marriage.
There was the wedding. Then the home, children, insurance, education, holidays and everything else that keeps family life moving.
Spending a couple of thousand dollars on a holiday doesn’t feel particularly unusual.
Spending the same amount directly on your marriage does.
Because for most of us, the marriage itself has never really had a line item.
Which is strange, when so much of the life we’re building depends on the marriage underneath it.
And if you have children, you’re also investing in the marriage they are learning from.
But perhaps there is another way to think about the S$2,000.
What would it be worth if the issue that has been stuck in your marriage for months or years finally started moving?
If you knew this could help you stop having another version of the same conversation, another year of the same frustration and another season with the same unresolved thing sitting between you, would S$2,000 feel the same?
Because that is what you are actually investing in.
Not eight weeks of marriage information.
You’re not paying simply to learn more about what a good marriage should look like.
You’re spending eight weeks working on one real issue that is still happening in your marriage, understanding the pattern around it and practising what to do differently when it shows up again.
Because knowing what a good marriage should look like usually isn’t the hard part.
The hard part is knowing what to do differently when the same issue comes up again.
Because neither of you is starting from zero anymore.
You’re both bringing the history of every time this issue has come up before.
And of course, there is still one reasonable question:
What if I do all of that and nothing actually moves?
That is exactly why we created the Less-Stuck Guarantee.
IF YOU GIVE THIS A REAL SHOT
The Less-Stuck Guarantee
Do the work. If nothing meaningfully moves, you shouldn’t have paid.
We believe any issue can be resolved.
And we believe that if you take one real issue that has been stuck for months or years and spend eight weeks working on it differently, something should move.
Maybe the issue is actually resolved. Maybe a decision finally gets made. Maybe something difficult gets said clearly. Maybe the two of you begin responding differently or finally find something new to try.
Whatever movement looks like for your issue, you should not still be standing exactly where you started.
So come to the programme. Stay engaged. Complete your check-ins and put what we work on into your marriage between sessions.
And if you genuinely give these eight weeks a real shot and nothing meaningfully moves at all, we’ll refund the full amount you paid.
No programme credit. No substitute offer.
Your money back.
Plus S$10 for a Ya Kun Set A.
You’re already taking the risk of trying again. We’re willing to take the financial risk with you.
And if nothing shifts?
Kaya toast is on us.
BEFORE YOU APPLY
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Can one spouse really make a difference if my spouse isn’t ready?
Yes.
A repeating pattern depends on both people making familiar moves. When one person changes their move, the interaction can no longer play out in exactly the same way.
That does not mean you can control your spouse or guarantee how they will respond. You cannot.
But you do change what they are responding to, which creates a different next moment between the two of you.
Sometimes your spouse responds differently too. Sometimes the first change is simply that the same conversation no longer spirals in the same way.
And if your spouse is willing to work on things too, there is naturally more you can address together.
But you do not need both of you to become ready on the same day before something can begin to change.
2. Does my spouse need to know or participate?
If your spouse wants to be involved, that is welcome too. There may be things you can work on more directly when both of you are engaged.
But their participation is not a condition for you to begin.
Maybe you have already said, “I think we should do something about us,” and they are not interested, think things are fine or say, “Maybe later.”
You do not have to stay in limbo waiting for both of you to become ready at exactly the same time.
If you are ready to work on the part of the marriage you can influence, you can begin.
If waiting has kept everything in the same place, more waiting is unlikely to create a different result.
3. What if my spouse really is the one who needs to change?
Sometimes they might be.
If you are carrying most of the household load, your spouse may genuinely need to take on more. If they made a hurtful choice, that choice is theirs to own.
But here is the problem: if your next move depends entirely on your spouse changing first, then whether anything changes is now sitting in the hands of someone you cannot control.
Beginning first does not mean pretending everything is your fault. It means refusing to make your own next step dependent on theirs.
Sometimes that means making a clearer request. Sometimes it means stopping something you have been over-carrying. Sometimes it means becoming clearer about what belongs to you and what genuinely belongs to your spouse.
You are taking responsibility for what is yours without continuing to carry what is theirs.
4. My marriage is actually okay. Do we really need something like this?
Yes.
Because “okay” does not mean the issue is going to resolve itself.
If the two of you have been getting stuck on the same thing for months or years, waiting usually just means carrying it for longer.
And unresolved things rarely stay neatly contained. They show up in the next conversation, the next decision and the next season. Sometimes they even come out in the little remarks you make about your spouse in front of the children.
You can love your spouse, have a generally good marriage and still have something between you that needs resolving.
So the real question is:
How many more years are you prepared to keep carrying the same issue?
You do not need to wait until a good marriage becomes a hurting one before you decide it is worth doing something about.
5. What if we don’t fully resolve the issue in eight weeks?
What looks like one big issue often turns out to contain several smaller issues.
Take parenting.
You might come in saying, “We keep fighting about the kids.”
But once we slow it down, “parenting” may contain disagreements about discipline, screens, school, routines, grandparents and who gets to decide what.
So the goal is not to somehow “solve parenting” in eight weeks.
It is to untangle what is actually inside the issue and start moving concrete parts of it.
Instead of leaving with, “We still have a parenting problem,” you may be able to say, “We have agreed how we handle screens and who takes the lead on school decisions. What we still need to align on is discipline.”
That is a very different place to be.
You can see what moved, what has been clarified or resolved and what needs to happen next.
6. Is what I share private?
Yes.
This is a small, private cohort. Confidentiality is explicit, you may pass on sharing and you will not be required to disclose intimate details simply because you are in a group.
Nothing from your story is shared publicly without separate, explicit permission.
7. Is this therapy, and who isn’t this programme for?
From Roommates to Us™ is marriage coaching, not therapy.
It is not designed for active abuse, coercive control, violence, current betrayal, addiction, acute mental-health risk or trauma requiring specialist care.
If something falls outside the scope of coaching, we would rather tell you clearly and point you towards more appropriate support than try to turn something serious into a communication exercise.
8. Is this a Christian programme?
We are Christians, but From Roommates to Us™ is not a Christian programme.
Our own faith shapes how we understand marriage. From where we stand, marriage is a covenant, not merely a contract.
But we don’t teach from the Bible, quote Bible verses as part of the programme or require you to share our beliefs.
From Roommates to Us™ is open to people of any faith or no faith.
You do not need to share our faith to participate.
9. What if I have to miss a session?
Life happens.
If you genuinely cannot attend live, we’ll make sure you have a way to catch up on what you missed and stay current with the programme.
What matters most is that you remain engaged, complete your weekly MIC™ and keep practising between sessions.
Because the most important part of the programme is not what happens during the Zoom call.
It is what happens the next time the issue comes up at home.
THE FIRST STEP
You don’t have to spend another decade carrying the same issue.
Maybe it’s been sitting there for months. Maybe it’s already been years. Maybe you barely argue about it anymore because both of you already know roughly how the conversation will end.
If it has already been years, don’t give it another one just because this has become normal.
Imagine a year from now and this simply isn’t the issue you keep having anymore.
Life will still bring new parenting decisions, money questions, work pressure and family changes.
The goal isn’t a marriage that never has another problem.
The goal is that you don’t keep carrying the same unresolved things into every new season.
You don’t need both of you to become ready on the same day.
Start with one unresolved issue, one repeating pattern and one willing spouse who is ready to get something moving.
FROM ROOMMATES TO US™
Feel Close Again.
founding intake
Starts 1 November 2026
8 weeks · one session a week · 8 spouse spots
The first step is a short application. There is no payment and no commitment at this stage. Tell us what is happening in your marriage, what the unresolved issue is and where the two of you keep getting stuck.
Verrill personally reviews every application. If it looks like the programme may be appropriate, we will invite you to a 30-minute Marriage Clarity Call. We will talk about what is actually happening, what you have already tried and whether From Roommates to Us™ is the right place to work on it.
If it isn’t, we’ll tell you.
P.S.
The moment you join, we’ll send you The 10-Minute Closeness Reset – one small thing you can try at home without announcing another ominous, “We need to talk.”